4 Steps to Help You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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You really want your ex girlfriend back, but you're not sure how to go about it, so you have decided to just wing it and hope for the best. Well, good luck.

But, if you really want to learn how to get her back there are steps you can follow that are sure to give you more success than winging it!

Breakups happen. But, they are not always forever. People often get back together and are able to mold even stronger relationships. If you want to subtly let her know that you are still interested in having her a part of your life, then give these 3 steps at try so that you potentially can rekindle things.

#1 Don't play too hard to get.

Though communication should be cut back, you don't want to play too hard to get if you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back. Start by reaching out to her and letting her know that you are still interested in her. But, be subtle. Make this a casual contact or you may chase her further away.

Find an easy-going, casual method of communication. You want to keep in touch, but it has to be light, or you will never get her back. Drop her an email; something casual like : "Hi, what's doing?". But no love poetry, or sad sob stories. Keep things light.

#2 Don't start seeing someone else.

If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, stay away from other girls. If she is the one for you, you've no need to be seeing others, and if you do she will never believe you still want her. There is no need to check out other prospects at this time. Not if you want to learn to get your ex girlfriend back

And if you are thinking that making her jealous is a good move, you are very mistaken.

#3 Treat her like a princess.

Let her know she's special. Use discretion when reaching out to her, but don't be afraid to send her a card, or a text message for the important dates and anniversaries in her life. This let's her know you are thinking about her in a positive, non-needy way. She has the choice to answer or not. And if she isn't yet ready to talk to you, no harm done. You haven't been pushy, just caring. And thoughtful to remember things that are important to her.

If you send her an email once in a while to tell her something you have done, i,e. a sports event you went to of a team that she likes, or some other kind of event you have shared in the past, then it is easy to let her know what you are doing.

After a while you might invite her to something like a movie, or other innocuous event that you know she likes. But keep the invitation casual and simple. And don't offer it until she has responded to some of your casual emails.

And be cool if she refuses. If you want to learn to get your ex back you have got to take it slow, and not appear too eager. Being pushy is a big mistake. Being cool and casual will contribute greatly to how quickly she wants to see you again. If you are pushy or needy you will drive her further away.

#4 Give her space.

The very worst thing you can do is to be contacting her often. She will consider it stalking.

If you show up everywhere she goes, leave frequent messages, call her friends, things like this, you will be pushing her away even further.

Distance and time are your friends now.

There is no exact science to learning to get your ex girlfriend back, but there are some pretty clear cut suggestions that will steer you in a good direction. There is a good book about making up. That is full of easy to understand suggestions. The suggestions I have given you are just the beginning steps. They aren't my ideas, they come from T. W Jackson who has written a book on this very topic, called
The Magic of Making Up

T.Dub (affectionately) has helped thousands of people get back with their exes. The odds will be very much in your favor if you follow his suggestions.


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There is an excellent resource for you. The book "The Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. It is filled with tips, pointers, remedies, testimonials, and more. All good advice. Learn more about it here http://www.squidoo.com/howtowinbackalostlove This book has saved countless relationships.

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This article was published on 2010/03/29
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