Can I Get My Ex-girlfriend Back?

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If you find yourself asking the question, "Can I get my ex-girlfriend back?" then it is possible that the breakup of the relationship was not bad enough where amends cannot be made. Working to do whatever possible to make things right is a step in the right direction. Be sure to start now because there is no time like the present.

Can I get my ex-girlfriend back by demonstrating that I have a caring side to me?

It is not necessarily guaranteed that you and your ex-girlfriend will get back together; however, you can make the odds in your favor by doing things for her that are kind and thoughtful. You can start out by demonstrating how you miss her and apologize for any wrong that you may have done. While doing such things, it is important that you observe her reactions. If you notice that your gestures make her angry, such as she becomes angry when you tell her you are sorry or trashes the roses you sent and tears up the cards, you will then need to change your strategy.

If merely apologizing to her makes her sore, you may want to try demonstrating your sorrow with your actions instead. Think about what you have done to upset her, and steer clear of making the same mistakes again. Work hard to behave in a way that truly demonstrates you are sorry.

If you find she is trashing the roses, try to think about why this is the case. It is possible that roses may seem so average and clich and she may feel that no thought was put into purchasing the roses. You can take things a step further and select your own roses to make a special arrangement to give to her. Purchase a blank card and write your honest feelings on it, and include this card along with the roses.

A typical complaint for many women is that men are just not sensitive and caring enough. Try to reflect back over your relationship. Ask yourself, have I done enough to demonstrate these qualities in myself? Of course, asking this question may lead to you asking, Can I get my ex-girlfriend back by demonstrating that I am, in fact, sensitive to her needs and that I care about her? While it may not necessarily work, it is worth a try. After all, if you show her these personality traits, it will make it easier for her to accept you back. It is important, however, that you do not expect her to come running back right away, just because you do such things. Keep in mind that it will take time.

You will also need to consider that if you rarely did anything during your relationship to demonstrate that you were caring and sensitive or if you only did such things in the beginning, she will doubt that you are being sincere. If she does doubt you, do not give up, and most of all, do not become angry. Keep putting forth the effort, and do it because these are the things that will make her pleased, not because it is a task you must conquer.

Can I get my ex-girlfriend back if I go out and date other women?

If a lot of time has passed since you guys have broken up and you are still working on getting her back, it is fine to go on a casual date. A date that is casual in nature will seem harmless, and it may make her wish she was dating you instead. Remember, if you take matters too far, this plan will backfire in your face.

Can I get my ex-girlfriend back if she is with another guy?

If she seems that she is moving on, you can send her an occasional card letting her know that you are thinking about her. You never know, she may be won over by the fact that you merely took the time out to demonstrate to her that you care enough to think about her.

If it appears she's moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don't look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.
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These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T W Jackson aka (T 'Dub') Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my ex back.

T 'Dub' authored a simple, step by step plan called 'The Magic Of Making Up', which you can find at my 'Get Your Ex Back' website

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This article was published on 2011/01/17
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