Does my ex girlfriend still love me? If you're asking this question now chances are that you still have strong feelings for your ex girlfriend and wondering if she is on the same page with you regarding getting back together. Is it possible to read a girls mind? Trust me, it’s easier said than done. However, there are specific signs shown by a girl that reveals that they are still into you. Let’s examine some certain signs that show that she still loves you.
First, you should never make the mistake of asking your ex girlfriend if she still loves you. You are always going to get “no” as an answer, even if she still has strong feelings for you. Here are 3 reasons why her reply might be no.
1. She might say no because of her pride, and she is not sure if you still have feelings for her.
2. Her lack of trust will prevent her from saying yes because she is afraid that you may hurt her again.
3. She might have it in mind to hurt you as well, the same way you inflicted pain on her.
It’s very important that you know exactly how your ex girlfriend feels about you before you attempt to bring up the issue of reuniting with her. I have designed some proven signs that indicate that she still loves you.
Generally, after a break there is bound to be no contact between both parties. However, if she still loves you, you will discover that she still gets in touch with you. Does she still call you occasionally even if it’s just a short phone call to know how you are doing? Does she still hang around in places that both of you used to and tend to show off when you are around? This shows that she is still into you.
Does She Enquire About You?
If she ask friends and family about you, then the answer to your question “does my ex girlfriend still love me?” is almost guaranteed to be “yes”. The fact that she still ask about you shows that she still cares. If she want to know your whereabouts and how you are doing, it’s obvious that she still thinks about you. It took a lot of courage on her path to swallow her pride to ask about you, when she obviously knows that your friends are aware of the breakup.
She is perhaps asking to test the waters to know if you haven’t begun dating another girl. This as well shows that she still loves you. she definitely knows that your friend are going to let you know she has been asking about you, even though her pride won’t allow her to call and ask you to reunite.
Another guaranteed sign that indicates that your ex girlfriend still loves you is if she hasn’t started dating another guy since the breakup. Her reason for not dating may be that she believes you two would get back together sooner or later.
However, if she has begun dating, don’t fret. It’s just a rebound relationship and fact shows that most rebound relationship always fails. She is just dating to get over the pain of the breakup and she probably doesn’t have strong feeling for that new guy. You don’t need to give up hope now, but you must be patient. Try to be friends with her. By the time the relationship eventually fails, she will definitely come back to where her heart lies and that is you. When that happens, you will be available to take her back.
She Talks About Happy Memories
Does your ex girlfriend talks about happy memories whenever you two meet? If she does this, then you can be guaranteed that she still love you. She probably talks about the happy memories you both shared in the past to make you realize what you are missing. This simply shows that she is not over you yet.
Note that you can’t judge using these signs if your breakup just occurred recently. You need to give her time to miss you. Just like the saying, “absence makes the heart grow fonder” she will never be attracted to you until she starts missing you.
If you still love your ex girlfriend and want her back, don't do the common mistakes of calling back and begging her. This will simply do more harm than good to your relationship. Ensure you get a complete game plan to win her back.