Get Your Girlfriend Back – Simple Ways

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Relationships can be great times in your life, but when you break up with someone, it can be very difficult to pick up the pieces and move on. There are many reasons for that breakup. It could be something happening recently or a while back. But the important thing to remember is that you can’t win her back just by 20 times of phoning a day or expensive presents. In fact, these may push her even further away. What you need to do is take your time, regroup, and think what was wrong. By this , you can heal your relationship and get her back.

 

Assess the Initial Breakdown


The first step when it comes to how to win back an ex girlfriend is to sit down and take stock from the beginning to the end. At what point in the relationship did she seem to start pulling away? By discovering this you may be able to identify the specific problem that the two of you are having and address the real problem (and not the problem that she may have given you).

 

It can be something as simple as a fight, the way you looked at another girl, a trip out of town, or a night out with the girls. But you need to figure out where things went south before you will be able to turn them around. More importantly you need to figure it out without her help because quite honestly she may not be able to identify the defining event. But if you can make up for that moment or at least work to bridge the gap that it created you may very well be able to rekindle the romance.

 

Avoid Being too Eager


Women adore men who are strong with a softer side. They do not want a man that offers his service as a doormat though. If you really want to know how to win back your ex girlfriend you should understand that romantic gestures are wonderful in the heat of a relationship. They need to be used sparingly however, or they lose their impact and become acts of a desperate man rather than tokens of love and affection. Don't hang around the telephone, don't answer emails immediately, and don't call all the time. Don't be at her beck and call. This is a tightrope of sorts. You want to be there for her but you want to make sure it's on your terms and not hers.

 

Romantic relationships can be the greatest joys in our lives and the greatest sorrows. If you have found a romance worth saving then you need to learn how to win back your ex girlfriend before she moves on without you.

 

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This article was published on 2010/04/24
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