There is no doubt at all that you are going to end up facing some resistance from your ex girlfriend if you are trying to win her back. It comes with the territory and you need to expect that this is going to happen. What you also have to realize is that you can make everything a lot easier on yourself if you remain focused on making your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you.
What happens when most men go after their ex girlfriend is, they think that all they have to do is present her with some logical argument or that they need to find a way to convince her to give them another try and this almost never works out. Persuasion and logical arguments can only get you so far, but a clear cut and easy way to get her back is making her feel like she is in love with you again.
Here's how to make your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you:
1. Take some time to put some much needed distance between you and her so that she doesn't feel like you are trying to get her back.
As funny as it might seem, it's much easier to get her to come back when it seems like that is not what you are trying to do. Look, your ex girlfriend kind of expects that you are going to try and find a way to woo her back to you, and she is prepared for that. If you go away for a little while and then come back and act differently, then you can be a little more subtle about what you want to do.
2. Let her see that you have gotten your life in order and that you are doing well without her.
Most guys that go after their ex girlfriend let their lives just kind of sink into some kind of wallowing depression and you want to show your ex girlfriend that this has NOT happened to you. Instead, she needs to see that you are doing well without her and that your life is in order. If that means that you actually have to get things together and make your life better, then go ahead and do that.
3. Send her mixed signals so that she thinks of you as someone that confuses and challenges her.
You don't want to be a guy who bends over backwards to try and make your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you. No, you really want to send her some mixed signals here and there so that she feels confused and challenged all at the same time. This is what will make her feel like she is falling back in love with you and make it EASY for you to get her back.